Understand the reasons of husband emotional infidelity
When an emotional connection or rapport is achieved between your husband and someone else, we are talking about husband emotional infidelity.
Although people involved in such affairs insist that such emotional affinity is not a threat to their relationship, the truth is that regardless what they say, at the end lasting relationships are forged from sentimental rapport. Therefore having such kind of connection with somebody means that their current relationship is in great danger and that a new relationship could arise.
Emotional connection is easily achieved when intense work or a problem is solved together by two persons, even if there is more people involved or they are part of a larger team.
When your husband is involved in emotional infidelity, usually he behaves like a teen in love, leaving important activities or missing obligations to assign time to the activity where he meets his emotional infidelity mate.
A unjustified increase in time working at your husband’s office or wherever they meet, only means that he love to spend time together and he sacrifices other important things in his life to get together, like his own family.
The common defense against emotional infidelity accusations is that they are only friends and that nothing is happening between them. Most of the time, when the emotional relation has not evolved into cheating, such affirmation is true but sometimes that could be the beginning of a romantic relationship.
Therefore, the real danger of a husband emotional infidelity is not such relationship itself, but the menace that it can be the spark of real romantic affair.
Recognizing when emotional infidelity is becoming dangerous, is matter of noticing when your husband doesn’t know anymore where to draw the line for the relationship, completely ignoring other aspects of his life, like family, kids, self care, etc.
It is very important when dealing with emotional infidelity avoid being jealous with your husband because that will develop an even stronger bond with his emotional infidelity mate. Additionally, these accusations will bring into the equation that they talk seriously about their feelings for each other. So don’t be jealous, that will only make you loose your husband.
The real danger of an emotional infidelity is not such relationship itself, but the menace that it can be the spark of a real romantic affair.
Have the courage to fight Emotional Infidelity
Emotional infidelity on most occasions comes as a reaction to tedious real life activities as couple, like raising children, paying bills, etc. So avoid making these activities the focal point of your life, don’t forget about fun and good times, even once in a while.
If you notice that your husband is involved in emotional infidelity, try making him aware of what he is doing and what is he putting on risk, without making a scene and without behaving jealousy as I said before. Only a clear, non-aggressive, non-emotional and very reasoned exposition, advising him where is he directing and the consequences of his behavior.
If you get an aggressive, very emotional response, it is probable that it is time to start looking for the signs of infidelity, which I described in previous articles as emotional infidelity might have already evolved into a romantic affair. Don’t take this as a rule, check first how to catch a cheating husband before making any accusation.
One major risk of husband emotional infidelity is that people involved do not feel guilty as they have not done anything wrong, yet. Therefore, blaming or unnecessarily attacking them will have very unwilling results.