Saving your Relationship when you have Cheating Problems
There are thousands of reasons to do it…
There are thousands of reasons to save your relationship even if you have had a cheating spouse problem.
You know such reasons and nobody should question them neither your decision to save your relationship. Why? Because it is your life, because you will be the one who will gain or loose with your decisions and because you are the one who is suffering this problem.
However, if you decide to save your relationship, you must forgive. Why? Let me explain…
You are saving your relationship because your own decision. Therefore, you are implicitly forgiving; not doing it will cause you an internal conflict unconsciously.
Additionally, the most important reason, is that you should continue with your life and the only way to live as you deserve it, is without rage and revenge feelings inside you.
Such feelings will only make you live a bitter and unhappy life.
As you can now see, forgiving is not about your partner, but about you.
When you forgive, it is important to note and clearly understand that you are not justifying the actions of your partner. There is not any valid excuse for what he/she did to you.
Also, you should be fully aware that you are not responsible in any way of your partner behavior. Even if you failed in something and that failure is used as an excuse by your partner to justify his/her actions, you are not responsible.
Forgiving will make you understand internally that you are not responsible for his/her behavior.
A cheating hurt is difficult to forget, I can tell you by experience, but if you choose to save your relationship, forgiveness is the price.
If you decide to save your relationship and you resent, you will be only extend the agony for a limited time and your relationship will end anyway.
If you decide to save your relationship, then you should success doing it. You suffered enough; it is time to live happily.
Here are some of the best resources, to save your marriage, which you can find on the Internet.